Monday, November 16, 2009

What do i do if?

what do i do if a girl i like is in my martial arts class and everytime we talk she would always smile and laugh. (topics are mostly school, martial arts, food, travel, and movies) I even noticed that everytime when I talked to her, she would always be holding/hugging something or having her hands pinned to something. I believe that she is trying not to play with her hair. But I'm very bad at judgment. Although we dont see each other very much, for some reason I still like her and I dont know if its the way back too. We've also been friends ever since we went to a tournament together along with the martial arts team. But I am also shy if you guys answer to ask her out. So what do I do? Note: I am very confused about this. Any guidence?

What do i do if?
shyness is a major problem of mine too. give it a shot. martial arts should teach you self confidence. complement her technique or kata. next time a martial art movie comes out tell her how excited you are to see it. ask her if she wants to see it also. you could also try to get a group to go so its not really a date, but you get to interact with her on a more social level.
Reply:write a note.
Reply:just pretend she's your bff and you want to hang out with her.
Reply:You should ask her out on a date. I understand that you are shy, but being shy could make you miss out on a good woman.
Reply:well it is like so obvious that she likes you. you should seriously tell her and I bet you anything that she feels the same way.
Reply:give a call
Reply:Pick up the phone.
Reply:well I would say to give it a shot ask her if she would like to go coffee or just a drink and i think when it came to judgement u did an okay job.
Reply:well if you really like her then youll be brave enough to tell her the truth! and if she dont like you back then you deserve better!





-Kay
Reply:aww....sweet. ask her out like a guy.
Reply:just take her personnel number and call her somewhere alone and tell ur internal feelings to her if she is interested she will say yes otherwise she will try to make u as a friend.
Reply:Get her phone number and call her. Or get her email and talk with her on MSN Messenger. That's the easiest way to get to know a girl without the nervousness/awkwardness of a face-to-face conversation...
Reply:take it from me if your in love to her tell her about it.





cause if you don't you will end up just like me with full of regrets.. and worst she might ended up with just some bad ***,playboy guys out there and we all know that there are alot of goons out there....
Reply:you should ask her out in a casual way.no big deal.brush out your shyness.what possibly can go wrong.seems like she is doing all the girly things that speak to you.obviously she is never going to ask you out ,simply that's not the way it works.just be yourself,be naturally spontaneous,avoid formulas,she is reading you back,and she likes you...you know that.try something like;


"hey,(name) would you like to go out (walk'n thepark,coffee,)


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